After keeping her silence for the past months, vlogger Crisha Uy finally shared her “breakup story” with former boyfriend, 33-year-old actor Joem Bascon. It was only last December 2019 when the latter confirmed their split after being in a relationship for over eight years.
In a vlog posted by Crisha on her YouTube channel last January 10, she admitted she had a hard time making videos since her breakup with former live-in partner, Joem Bascon.
The 11-minute video showed some of her previous video clips, where she can be seen attempting to create a vlog, but because of her emotional state at the time, she always ended up crying and failed to record a new vlog.
But this time, a more positive and happy Crisha faced the camera and she said that she’s now ready to share her side of the story.
“I’m sorry it took me a while to share my video, to share my vlog kasi because I was really emotional and syempre when you’re emotional baka may masabi tayo na hindi natin gusto ma-share or masabi and ayoko naman masabi yun. But now I think I’m ready to share to you my breakup story.”
She went on to share that her main reason for vlogging her story was not to ask for attention or sympathy, but more on she just want to inspire other people who are going through the same scenario as hers.
The 31-year-old vlogger admitted that she is not regretting the past 8 years that they’ve been together, to the point that they already lived together under one roof and even talked about their plans on getting married.
“Hindi ko ni-regret na naging kami, at hindi ko ni-regret yung eight years namin, kasi mahal ko naman siya.”
Right after saying this, Crisha once again became teary-eyed and had to stop talking for a while to compose herself.
She also confirmed the speculations of many that it was Joem who initiated their separation.
“Ako kasi, naniniwala din ako na kapag nagbe-break, may isang nang-iiwan at iniiwan. Mahirap sabihin pero wala na tayo magagawa if he fell out of love. Hindi ko naman puwede pilitin yung tao na hindi na ako mahal. Mahirap tanggapin pero kailangan tanggapin. I don’t want to blame myself kasi wala na tayong magagawa. That’s uncontrollable. Maybe we’re just not meant to be.
Addressing the reports about Joem being allegedly involved in a new relationship, Crisha said,
“Kung may minahal na siya agad pagkatapos, it’s not really my business anymore, kasi dun lang ako sa parte ng buhay niya na involved ako,” anang vlogger. Sa mga concerned sa akin, nagme-message sa akin, nagse-send ng photos… pero if you see him na may kasamang iba, it’s not my concern anymore.”
This is in line with the news that Joem had reconciled relationship with a former girlfriend, actress Meryll Soriano, this happened a few weeks after he confirmed his breakup with Crisha.
Joem and Meryll were even spotted together celebrating New Year’s Eve at the actress’ family home.