Will you be happier if you marry someone either female or male who is unattractive or ugly? Well nowadays, it matters to everyone. For those who watch television and pay attention to social media, it’s clear that people are over-focused on beauty.
Some advertisements of media are showing that being beautiful is having fair skin, perfect teeth, and sexy body. Of course, most of the people are blinded with the truth that beauty comes within, what matters most are the special qualities that come from the inside of the person.
A wholesome person with character is must prettier than a person who looks sexy and handsome on the outside but is shallow and undeveloped on the inside.
As time passes and the world became impractical when it comes to beauty, these couples look like that they are not matched to be together with.
However, this woman named, Dengs San Pedro, proved to everyone that the insight is wrong and the stereotype should stop. She shared a photo of her and her husband on social media who earned a lot of violent reactions.
The said photo goes viral, and netizens quickly bashed and judged Dengs’ husband for not being as good looking as her. Netizens disapproving eyes says that Dengs’ husband is not good looking because he has dark skin which does not match to Dengs.
Some even suggested Dengs look for other men that match her beauty. But Deng’s loves her husband dearly that she didn’t mind what other’s may say because for her, he is the most handsome and attractive guy he ever knew and she is lucky that someone like her husband loved her.
There’s nothing wrong if we want to be physically attracted to other people. But, when we are obsessed with finding someone beautiful and handsome, we easily lost track of the most important and profoundly qualities that we should be valued.
It’s the love, affection, chemistry, communication, commitment, patience, intellect and loyalty that remains even beauty fades.
While it is easy to be deceived by beauty, it takes real maturity to know and understand that inside qualities of a person make a long-term relationship last.
If you want to be happy, then find someone who can make you happy and fulfilled for the rest of your life. Find someone to marry just like the guy in the song of Adam Sandler, “GROW OLD WITH YOU”, which is someone who will make you smile whenever you’re sad. Who will carry you around when your arthritis is bad.
Who will get you medicine when your tummy aches. Who will build a fire if the furnace breaks?
Who will give you coat when you are cold and so on. Choose someone who encourages you to be the best you can be and allows you to be whoever you may be. And lastly, choose someone and love them with no ifs and no buts. Love them for no other reason.